Perfection

There’s a saying I’ve read a lot recently, that seems to have taken up residence in my brain, which is that perfect is the enemy of good.

I am brand new to running a small business, and I am notoriously lacking in self confidence, which obviously isn’t the first thing you put out there on any business card, but there it is.

I suspect it’s getting in the way of me launching myself out into the world, and yet, I think I will be good at this. I think I have the potential to be very good. 

I also think I won’t be perfect. I think I will miss the nuance in the room at moments, or misjudge an emotion, or fail to capture the spirit of a beloved family story, and that fear, that I might not be perfect is standing between me and being good.

And until I start, and I practice, I will be nothing but an idea, so it’s time I think, to push past my nerves at not being good enough, and try my best. 

Because confidence comes through experience, not speculation.

Comments

5 responses to “Perfection”

  1. William Gallagher Avatar
    William Gallagher

    Damn right. Although the confidence thing is a nuisance: I wish the distribution of confidence and ability were better related.

  2. Lara Dickens Avatar
    Lara Dickens

    You have a beautiful way with words and a lovely patient way with people. You can do this and do it well I have utter faith in you. I’d think you were impressive even if you weren’t my sister.

  3. Sally Pope Pope Avatar
    Sally Pope Pope

    When you travelled your emails ( I think) captured the essence of wherever you were with clarity and humour. I still remember
    “ Did I really see an elephant with side lights”?
    Summed up how normal that was for wherever you were and abnormal for us the reader

  4. Debbie Matthews Avatar
    Debbie Matthews

    I think you have the perfect temperament for this because of your kind and caring nature. Lack of confidence is only overcome by getting out there and doing it and you know we are all behind you xx

  5. John Townley Avatar
    John Townley

    You know in your heart of hearts that you can do it. You’re just not certain everyone else will think so. I’m certain that when they get to know you they will. Break a leg.

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